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Safe Sex, Dating, Love Making Tips and Tricks
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By Suzie Heumann, Founder of Tantra.com
How do you become the initiator of more adventurous sex? So many women and sometimes men have to get their arms twisted before they get intimate. Their submissive roles in the bedroom never change. Why is it important to break out of this role sometimes, and how can you do it?
Ancient Eastern philosophy understands that the woman embodies the Shakti energy or creative force that 'makes the world go around.' The only problem is women are rarely taught to access it. We live in a world that teaches women to be passive (feminine) and men to be active (masculine). In truth, both sexes need to embody both the feminine and the masculine to be in true balance with nature. The Yin/Yang symbol represents this concept beautifully.
In most world cultures men carry the responsibility of being the macho, sexy guy who is just supposed to 'get it up.' Men have had to give up a tender side of themselves in order to fit this stereotype. Women then complain that their men aren't soft, considerate and emotionally available. It's confusing, isn't it? In reality men need touch, desire, and attention to feel turned on as much as women do. Preconceived notions of male sexuality can actually hinder a man's full sexual response.
Conversely, a woman is often caught in her role of the soft, passive, non-aggressor who expects to put little or no energy into her orgasms, pleasure, and creativeness around sex. Her partner is supposed to know what to do, when to do it, and how to do it. Not being a woman, or a mind reader, most men fail at this super-human task.
So, how do we bring more balance, adventure and spontaneity into the bedroom? Here are some helpful hints:
There are many, many ideas, practices and activities that can help you create the intimacy you desire and deserve. A little adventurous spirit may be required to take risks that will open you up to each other. You'll be more fully your real selves if you do. Take charge once and awhile and see what happens. You've got nothing to lose and everything to gain!
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Pregnancy is not a sickness but an integral part of a woman’s life, it does sometimes pose a problem in carrying out everyday tasks. While someone women face morning sickness, a few others make tend to swell up. Not quite noticeable others may bring alive their nesting instincts and inability to concentrate on activities.
In these trying times a to-be-mum is normally advised to stay calm and stress free. It now appears that that alternative treatment like acupuncture might also help mums to be. A new study by experts at the Sahlgrenska Academy in Gothenburg, Sweden, reveal that acupuncture can help women who suffer from crippling pain particularly pelvic girdle pain (PGP) allowing them carry on with their daily lives.
“The results of this study are encouraging as it shows that acupuncture could improve the lives of women with PGP. Complementary therapies like acupuncture may help relieve certain types of pain but their efficacy remains to be proven and more research is needed. For some women the hope of pain relief is enough reason for them to undergo alternative treatments. However, women should consult their doctors and midwives and not abandon traditional medicine”, mentioned Professor Philip Steer, editor-in-chief of the BJOG.