Saturday, December 10, 2011

How to give a hand job to your partner


Women are not always in the mood to have a intercourse with her partner. It’s a “girl thing”. It maybe hormonal or stress related. What to do when your hubby is in the mood and you’re not? Well, at LEAST give hime a hand job and a good one. Hand jobs are great! It’s also the best way to stop or start if you’re giving Blow Job. Because your hands don’t tire out as quickly as your mouth does. Also it is easier to apply pleasure with your hand than your mouth.


Here are some of my tips to make him orgasm fast through hand job:


1. Use plenty of water-based lube. Wet hand job is way better than a dry hand job. You can also use your saliva.

2. Wrap your hand gently but firmly around his penis. Slowly move it up and down. Keep a steady rhythm.

3. Hold his penis like you’re trying to open a door knob. Then try turning it the other way. Repeat. This way the palm of your hand stimulates the underside of the penis which is highly erogenous and pleasurable.

4. Look him in the eye. Give him a sexy look while you’re giving him a hand job. Let him know that you’re focused on him.

5. Talk dirty to him. Whisper in his ear while you’re stroking him. Ask him if he wants it harder or faster.

6. If you’re not making eye-contact, you can kiss him while stroking him. Kiss, lick and suck his nipples.

7. You can also use the other hand to gently cup his balls while stroking him up and down.

8. As he nears climax, continue stroking his shaft with one hand while the other massages his perineum (stretch of skin between his anus and testitcles)


It’s a good idea to experiment and try different moves. Practice makes perfect. You can also ask him to show you how he likes to be pleasured. Put your hand over his and let him guide you.

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Tuesday, December 6, 2011

Five 5 Hot Sex Moves Women Want In Bed


Men, don’t pressure anything here, of course — but if you offer, you may be pleasantly surprised at how enthusiastically she accepts … 

1. She wants a finger (or something else) in her bum. Some women enjoy pleasure from their back door, while others would prefer to keep that door shut. But even if a woman knows touching that area is pleasurable for her and even if she’s played with that area with another partner, it can be trés awkies to discuss with a new dude. First, she’s scared you’re going to be totally repulsed by the idea. Second, she’s afraid there might be little bits of poo that will gross him out. And last, but certainly not least, she’s aware how sensitive/tight the area is and doesn’t want to get hurt. We all know that when we actually get over our inhibitions in that area and enjoy the pleasure, it can be awesome. Getting there is the trick, though!  

How to ask: You need to ask first. Don’t go poking your finger around her no-no hole without asking first because, duh, that’s bad sex etiquette, and also you might put her off-guard. A simple, “Can I touch your anus?” or “Have you ever had someone  play with your anus before?” will suffice. (If the word “anus” grosses you out in the bedroom, use another word.) If she hesitates, don’t pressure her, but offer to touch the outside very gently. Ask her if she likes it and if she doesn’t, stop immediately; if she does like it, and you want to do this, ask if you can slide your finger in. You should probably use lube to do this and you should definitely proceed S-L-O-O-O-O-W-L-Y as you slip it in. Y’all can experiment with more fingers/butt plugs/dildos/your penis/etc. from there-on out as you see fit, but you should definitely, definitely, definitely play around with one finger first to start.

2. She wants to be gently choked. I’m not referring to WWE or MMA-style choking here; I am referring to gently cupping your hand below her chin in a dominant, but not dangerous, painful or asphixiating, way. If you press down on her throat or squeeze her throat, you can hurt her; that’s why you should cup, not press. Some people are into really intense sex acts like “erotic asphixiation,” which is something I am not equipped to give advice about. But far more people, I would suspect, are into e gentle choking, which isn’t about asphixiation per se but a show of dominance. Be a dominant sexy dude, not a python! Again, this is not a sex move you should do without asking first!

How to ask: Cupping your hand around a woman’s throat makes her very, very vulnerable. Most women would not let just anybody do it to them. There has to be lots and lots and lots of trust involved here, because obviously you could really hurt her. The good news is that kink is all about trust and if your girl is kinky in bed, you have probably already spanked/restrained/tied her up and she trusts you. So bring it up in the context of other things she likes: “You really love it when I restrain you while we’re having sex. Do you think you’d like it if I choked you gently, too?” If she’s game, then try it lightly at first and together you can find the right intensity/pressure for you both. It’s also a good idea to create a “safe word,” which is something she can say when she wants you to stop immediately. (Sometimes in the heat of the moment people say “Oh, noooo!” when they really mean “Oh, that feels good!” So it’s good if your safe word is something other than “no.”) My safe word is “stop” or “stop now” because it makes my intentions 100 percent clear.

3. She wants to wear cute little outfits during foreplay or sex. One thing I have learned in my decade-plus as a dirty, dirty whore is that dudes like the eye candy of lingerie, sort of, but really they prefer ladies naked. Nude. With no clothes on. In their birthday suits. I cannot be the only woman who has spent something like $75 or $100 on an adorable bra and panties set from Victoria’s Secret only to have a sex partner admire it for about 30 seconds before it lands on the floor. Alas, some women — myself included — don’t just wear sexy lingerie because it is eye candy for our partners. We wear sexy lingerie because we like to, because it makes us feel sexy. It’s disappointing when a partner doesn’t admire our sexy lingerie, not just because of the expense but also because it robs us of that “I feel so gorgeous right now!” moment.

How to ask: You may not need to verbally ask anything about this one; it might just be a matter of what you don’t do. If your lady-partner is already adorning herself in cute nighties or sexy lingerie before a sex romp, then I suspect she is doing it because she enjoys how it makes her feel. Show her the love and compliment her on how great she looks; take more time before you pull it off and toss it on the floor. Appreciate her beauty, rather than just ripping the candy bar wrapper off to get to the gooey sweet center underneath. If she’s anything like me, she’ll feel so gorgeous that it will multiply her horniness threefold! I am also a huge fan of male partners buying their female partners lingerie (or couples going shopping together, if he is afraid of doing it by himself). Obviously not everyone’s budget can accommodate this. But if it can, I think buying a woman something you think she’ll look amazing in as a special present is one of the most erotic things a man can do to say “I was thinking about you.” 

4. She wants to be called names in bed (or call you “daddy” in bed). Ah, the joys of dirty talk. I’ve been candid about how I enjoy being called a “slut” in bed. That’s only a sex move that I’ve started to enjoy in the past year or so. If a sex partner had called me a “slut” in bed when I was 18 or even 21, I might have been offended by the stigma associated with the word. (Today, I feel barely any stigma attached to it because to me it means a sexually liberated female , i.e. my girl friend and I call each other “sluts” or “slutty” as praise.) My point in sharing this with you is to underscore how women have strong, strong, strong associations with words like “slut,” “whore,” and “bitch,” thanks to all the B.S. in our sexist society. You’ll want to proceed with extra-special caution on this one — think of it as like choking a girl, but with words. You absolutely want to make sure she understand these are only words you use in bed for fun, not actual beliefs about her that you hold.
How to ask: Just like you don’t want to go putting your thumb up her no-no hole on the first go around, you don’t want to climb into bed with a girl and say “suck my c**k, you filthy, dirty slut.” I love being talked dirty to, but even I would hop out of bed and put my clothes back on if a guy went from 0 to 60 like that. Do not call her names or humiliate her unless she tells you that’s what she wants. For all you know, she has issues left over from childhood about being physically punished and calling her a “bad girl” might be upsetting. The same goes for women who might have had abusive relationships in the past. So start off by playfully telling her that her behavior is “naughty” or she’s “being very bad” and seeing how she reacts. If she reacts playfully as well, you have a good foundation to start with.   Then, some other time when you are out of bed, ask her how she would feel if you called her a “slut” or if she wants to call you “daddy” (or whatever). If she says, “That’s weird,” and looks uncomfortable, then you have your answer. But if she’s intrigued, then you should take pains to explain to her you obviously do not think she is a slut/bitch/whore, but you think it could be fun in bed if both of you used those words. Ask what she thinks. And by all means, have her read my essay about being called a slut in bed and our anonymous writer’s essay about calling a guy “daddy” in bed. Maybe you’ll learn something!

5. She wants to use her vibrator to get off. It’s a lovely thing indeed when a woman can orgasm from vaginal intercourse. It’s also quite lovely when she can orgasm from being fingered or a guy going down on her. But let’s be honest: lots of women’s primary sexual relationship is with herself and it probably involves a vibrator. (Or, you know, a “personal massage item.”) Men, fear not the vibrating beast! It is not to be intimidated by, it is to be embraced! There is nothing — nothing — that is more of a relief to me as a woman than a man who isn’t intimidated by the sex toys that I use on myself, because sometimes I want to bring them to bed and use them with him, too.

How to ask: Straight up ask her, “The orgasms you have with your Rabbit are pretty intense, right? Would you ever want to bring it into bed?” She might be embarrassed to use her toy in front of you because, well, she is usually alone when she rubs one out. But her eyes also might light up! She’s having amazing orgasms with you and you just suggested you both add one more amazing element. What’s not to like? 

This should keep you busy every time. Go forth and prosper, my friends!

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Friday, November 4, 2011

Sexting Pros and Cons

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Sexting is the act of sending sexually explicit messages or photographs, primarily between mobile phones. The term was first popularized in early 21st century, and is a portmanteau of sex and texting, where the latter is meant in the wide sense of sending a text possibly with images.
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A social danger with sexting is that material can be very easily and widely propagated, over which the originator has no control.

According to a survey Males and females are equally as likely to text nude images of themselves. Sexting without forethought is like sex without foreplay — not likely to result in mutual satisfaction. Heed these sexting tips before you hit “send.”

As a general rule, men are more aroused by images, while women are more turned on by words.

The following Tips help you to master the art of SEXTING.

Step 1: Understand the risks

Understand the risks of sending sexually explicit text messages or photos via cellphone, aka “sexting.” Once you hit “send,” your message is out there for good, with no guarantee it will remain between you and the recipient. So weigh the pros and cons carefully before you engage in this mode of communication.

Step 2: Don't have premature sext

Consider your relationship with the intended recipient and whether sexting would be appropriate — and legal. If you’re not already sexually intimate, instigating via cellphone can be risky.

Step 3: Know the recipient

Know the recipient’s tastes and tendencies. Would they welcome a sext from you? How racy are they? Keep in mind that, as with any communication that doesn’t include face-to-face interaction, messages can be misconstrued.

Step 4: Don't drink and sext

Need we say it? Don’t sext when your inhibitions are lowered by alcohol, fatigue, heartbreak, or anything else. Always sext with a clear head and heart.

Step 5: Err on the side of subtlety

Err on the side of subtlety. You can always get more graphic if your sexts are well received; you’ll have a harder time recovering from sending a message the receiver finds offensive. Now that you know the ground rules, go and have good sext!


Thursday, November 3, 2011

How to Turn Your Women On with Sensual Massage

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Sensual massage is a great way to build intimacy and closeness with your partner. The idea behind sensual massage is that you are giving pleasure through touch to your partner. One person is the giver and one person is the recipient.

Since the two of you are in a consensual relationship, the boundaries that apply in professional massage don't apply to sensual massage. That means you don't need to worry about draping, or avoid intimate areas like the inner thigh or breasts. But massage is a skill, and it's helpful to learn some basic massage techniques so that what you do actually feels good to your partner.

How to Turn Your Women On with Sensual Massage: Set the scene

Step 1: Set the scene

Set the scene for her full body sensual massage by finding just the right spot and putting sexy music on the sound system.
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Warm things up

Step 2: Warm things up

Light some candles and warm a bottle of massage oil in a bowl of hot water. Make sure your hands are warm, too!
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Begin the massage

Step 3: Begin the massage

Invite her to lie face down. Straddle her, rub a few drops of oil between your hands, and begin massaging her shoulders. Use the flat of your hand, fingers pressed together, to give even strokes.
If her shoulders are tight, loosen them by rubbing them with one of your elbows.
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Move back down

Step 4: Move back down

Move down to her feet, giving each one a good rub before working back up her legs to her thighs.
Lightly trace a triangle on each inner thigh, from a few inches below her pubic bone to the inside of her knee. This is an erogenous zone.
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Stroke her bottom

Step 5: Stroke her bottom

Stroke her butt, using your thumb to gently massage the sacrum, the area just above the crease of her buttocks — a spot that will really turn her on.
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Turn her over

Step 6: Turn her over

Turn her over, pour a few drops of oil on her stomach, and gently stroke her belly, moving up toward her breasts.
How to Turn Her On with Sensual Massage: Give her a happy ending

Step 7: Give her a happy ending

Now that you’ve turned her on, give her a happy ending. With any luck, she’ll return the favor.




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Note: Never perform a full body massage on a pregnant woman.

Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Make your partner beg for more - Divine Sexual Tips

Divine sexual life: Make your partner beg for more! God is the Architect both of human sexuality, and of sexual pleasure. The passion, pleasure and possibilities of sex are his gift to humanity. Like any proud parent, Father God is pleased and honored when his kids delight in His gift / God made sex to be fun. He is not embarrassed nor is He angered when we enjoy it. Sex as God designed it to be is truly Divine.

Master these moves and you will give a new meaning to divine sex.

Divine Sex move #1 - Pluck the string


Technically speaking, this “string” (the frenulum) is a spot where the skin is attached. Men have one on the head of the penis and women on top of the vulva. You will pleasure a woman most with the lower side of the tongue (it is much smoother) on this spot and with quick movements to the left and right. Your tongue should be curved so that it gets close to the upper lip. With upward movements use the upper side of the tongue and with downward movements use the bottom side of the tongue.

Divine sex move #2 - The alphabet


This technique is supposedly famous because of the deceased ‘indecent’ comedian Sam Kinison. When you want to change the movement of the tongue, write the letters of the alphabet with it. To make it even more interesting, increase the size of the letters or ‘write’ in italics.

Divine sex move #3 - Sucking


Most women really enjoy sucking. Ask her to suck your finger and show you what kind of sucking she likes.

Divine sex move #4 - Diamond top


Suck the top of the clitoris and stimulate it with the tip of your tongue, while you use your mouth to create suction pressure.

Divine sex move #5 - Picasso


Use your tongue to show how you move across her entire body, starting with the clitoris. If you kiss her afterwards, you can show her what she tastes like.

Divine sex move #6 - Enjoy it!


Show your partner how much you enjoy it? No move is better than pure ecstasy of the partner!

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Monday, October 3, 2011

Women can masturbate with almost everything - Funway for Sexual Pleasure

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Did you know? Women can masturbate with almost everything! Do you know there are differnt ways to enjoying sexual pleasure for women. Women have many more options when it comes to masturbating than men. That is why we have decided to tell you some of the most fun ways that girls can use to have some hot solo pleasure.



In bed with a teddy bear


Stuffed animals are extremely appropriate for female masturbation, especially if they are a bit bigger and if their body parts are a bit harder. This works best with teddy bears, where the arms and legs are very appropriate for some naughty rubbing against the vagina. We are sure many teenage girls play with their teddy bears in this way, also because of the snout with its kinky shape, ideal for stimulating the clitoris. One of our regular readers shared this with us: “When I was a young girl, I had a teddy bear who had a button instead of a snout. During masturbation, I put it on my clitoris and moved it very slowly until I reached a powerful orgasm. I still have the teddy bear and I always have some very naughty memories of him.”

Rubbing against a blanket and a pillow


A blanket is also very handy. The girl can roll it into a ball and put it between her legs. She has to be kneeling on all fours and moving up and down. She should rub against a naked crotch and can add a pillow to the action as well. The pillow is harder and perhaps even more suitable for direct contact with the vagina. The girl can use any combination she wants and can move as she finds most appropriate. The same applies to the positions, which can also be changed.

The edge of the couch


This is very similar to the blanket and pillow, except that the execution is a bit naughtier because the action may take place in the living room, where it is more likely for you to get caught. Every couch has a wide enough edge, so that you can hump it and rub up against it as feels best to you. You can do it over your panties, or against a naked crotch. You can do it slowly, wildly, without reservations. Do it in the way that feels best to you and turns you on the most.

The flow of water


Many girls prefer masturbating in the bathroom, sometimes when showering, when they aim the flow of water into their vagina, or above a bidet, which is perfect for this kind of thing. if you have a showerhead with multiple settings, meaning that you can regulate the power of the flow, your pleasure will be greater and you will be able to control it more. If you have a bidet, you are in paradise because you only need to squat and aim the water straight at your crotch.

Bananas, Cumcumber, Summer squash, Carrots and other substitutes


If you do not have a vibrator nearby and if fingers start to feel boring, then a banana or carrot can also be handy. They look fairly similar to a real penis. With a banana, it is a good idea to peel it, while the carrot needs to be thoroughly washed. What is done with these objects is of course obvious, so we will not discuss this at this moment. More daring and naughty girls can also use hairbrushes, fountain pens and a toothbrush besides bananas and carrots. Perhaps even a bottle or a ladle. So, women can use anything that even remotely resembles a penis and might provide some pleasurable moments. Men usually have just their hands, but the choice is much greater for women. That is why we advise they not hold back and have as many naughty pleasures as they can without any reservations and feelings of shame.

Sunday, August 28, 2011

Eid ul Fitr Greetings Eid Mubarak Ramadan Greetings Eid Wallpaper


Eid Mubarak to all readers. I hope that you have the most blessed holiday and year ever.

Eid ul-Fitr, Eid al-Fitr, Id-ul-Fitr, or Id al-Fitr (Arabic: ‎عيد الفطر ‘Īdu l-Fiṭr), often abbreviated to Eid, is a Muslim holiday that marks the end of Ramadan, the Islamic holy month of fasting (sawm). Eid is an Arabic word meaning "festivity," while Fiṭr means "breaking (the fast)". The holiday celebrates the conclusion of the thirty days of dawn-to-sunset fasting during the entire month of Ramadan. The first day of Eid, therefore, falls on the first day of the month Shawwal.


On this special day, the Muslims indulge in traditional activities aside from celebrating with their dear ones. Read on to know about Eid Ul Fitr celebrations in different parts of the world.

United States: Eid Ul Fitr is not declared as a federal holiday in the United States. On this day, the Muslims get up early to offer prayers at the mosque or on their outdoor space. They get new clothes for this occasion and decorate their homes with special lighting. The Muslims also offer money to the poor on the Eid Ul Fitr.

The Eid Ul Fitr is the day when the Muslims in United States take delight in preparing recipes and sharing a special meal with their friends and family. They also thank God for all the good things they’ve received in their lives.

India: The Eid Ul Ftr is considered as a national holiday in India. People gather at the Jama Masjid mosque in New Delhi to offer their prayers to God. On this special day, the Muslims try out different recipes including sweet delicacies. Most of them indulge in Eid Ul Fitr celebrations by preparing a special dish – the ‘Siwaiyaan’. This recipe is actually made of toasted sweet vermicelli noodles, dried fruits, and milk. This is the day when the Muslims send Eid Ul Fitr cards to their loved ones and convey their best wishes on this festive occasion.

United Arab Emirates (UAE): The people of UAE indulge in Eid Ul Fitr celebrations with great enthusiasm. They usually wear white dresses with a long traditional ‘Thoub’ and ‘Ogal’. The ‘Ogal’ is a scarf having check patterns; it is attached with a black turban. Wearing these white dresses, the people offer prayers at the mosque. They also offer gifts to their loved ones on this special day. On the Eid Ul Fitr, festive fairs are held throughout the United Arab Emirates. The women paint their hands with henna and prepare sweets to gift to their dear ones on this day.


Turkey: The Eid Ul Fitr in Turkey is known as the Ramazan Bayrami. Since it’s a public holiday, therefore, educational institutions and government offices remain closed during the festival. As in other countries, people in Turkey dress up in special clothes for the Eid and visit the cemetery to pay respect to those who’ve passed away.

An important celebration of the Eid Ul Fitr is kissing the right hand of a senior person and placing it on one’s forehead while wishing that the person enjoys the festival with mirth and joy. The kids convey their wishes to their dear ones by visiting their relatives’ houses. In return they’re gifted with candies and sweets that they love to savor.

Canada: Eid Ul Fitr is not a national public holiday in Canada. However, the Muslims participate in Eid Ul Fitr celebrations and enjoy the festival with great enthusiasm. They wake up early in the morning and offer outdoor prayers. Just like the Muslims worldwide, the Muslims in Canada also wear the finest clothes and decorate their homes with special lighting. People gather together in Ottawa to celebrate the festive occasion.



Ideas to Celebrate the Eid Ul Fitr

You may celebrate the Eid Ul Fitr by shopping around for new clothes. Go for a gift exchange with your family members and friends. An interesting idea is to engrave your dear ones’ names on each ‘Kufi’ (round cap) and let them choose a cap to find out to whom that person should offer a gift.

An important part of Eid Ul Fitr celebrations is to express warm wishes to your neighbors and invite them for a meal. An interesting idea is to celebrate the Eid Ul Fitr with poor children. The Muslims are actually advised to offer 3 kilograms of one’s daily ration or its equivalent cash to the poor on this occasion.

If you’re looking for ideas on how to celebrate the Eid Ul Fitr, check out how the festival is celebrated across various countries. You’ll come to know how best you can enjoy the day. Tantra.com website

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Clitoris vs G-Spot

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Clitoris vs G-Spot

A lot of my blog readers asked me to differentiate G-spot orgasm from clitoral orgasm. The only function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure. There are around 6000-8000 nerve endings, twice the amount found in the entire penis. That’s why the feeling is more intense for women during masturbation or sex. Unlike the G-spot, the clitoris is located outside the vagina. It is a button-like portion at the top of the vaginal slit, where the inner lips (labia minora) meet. It is the female equivalent of the head of the penis. It’s extremely sensitive to touch, too sensitive for direct stimulation. Just like the G-spot, you need to turn-on a woman first before you stimulate her clitoris. When a woman is aroused, her clitoris swells and becomes erect making it easier for you to locate. Do not touch her clitoris until it’s properly lubricated. Wait for her to get wet or you can use water-based EZ warming jelly. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable. Apply a few drops of jelly on your fingers. Slightly touch the area around the clitoris – below or just above it. Rub her clit with light, small circular movements. Then you can rub it up and down with very light pressure. Start slow and increase speed but decrease the pressure to tease. As she starts to enjoy it, do it faster and harder. You can also take her hand and let her guide your own fingers the way she masturbates.

So what’s the difference between Clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm? Clitoral orgasm is the most common way a woman orgasms. A woman can tell when she’s about to climax/orgasm. She experiences waves of pleasure, increased breathing, heart rate, rhythmic contraction of the lower pubic muscles and the vagina. Everything takes about 10 seconds. The clitoris becomes extremely sensitive after climax. Orgasm from G-spot stimulation is bigger. It’s a whole-body kind of experience. It’s hard to identify the beginning and end of a G-spot orgasm because it is a long, slow orgasm. The sensation fills her up until she can’t believe she could possibly feel more, then she does, and it fills up her entire body again. That’s why when you stimulate a woman’s G-spot, you will leave her wanting for more.
Check out this video for some actual demonstration:

Friday, July 1, 2011

Whether or not you are ready to have sex

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If you're not sure you're ready for sex but you want to try, it might be best to leave it until you are sure you're ready. Whether or not you are physically ready, and feel passionate and feel an urge to take your relationship to a new level, is not the same as whether you are emotionally ready. Ask yourself what you hope the sex will make you feel like and, for example, how you'd feel afterwards if it wasn't very good, or if your boyfriend left you or cheated on you at some point. All sorts of things can go wrong when you're having sex for the first time, and so you should be absolutely sure that if things did go wrong, you're close enough to your boyfriend to both be able to have a giggle about it and, if necessary, give up and try it again another time. The last thing you want is to risk feeling awkward, let down or embarrassed. So be sure that you have the right kind of relationship and talk about it beforehand.

If you're not sure you're ready, and you're not going to him to talk about it, you definitely aren't ready. Until you can talk openly with him about your fears or worries, don't even think about it. What do you consider to be a long time together? You say there's no pressure on you but the mere fact that you know very well that he's ready and he's not a virgin, suggests that there is some pressure – even if it's subtle. Make him wait a little longer, until you're really ready and if he's not patient enough, you'll know you made the right choice. It really depends on whether you're after something that will cement your relationship or you're interested in a bit of fun and just curious about what sex is like? Remember it'll be different with every partner though, so if it doesn't turn out well, don't be put off!

Friday, June 24, 2011

Sex for Better Health | Frequent Sex give more vitality and endurance

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Sexual activity fosters everything from sexual and reproductive health to happiness. Surges in oxytocin and endorphins occurred as a result of orgasm, explaining why sex often leads to falling asleep. The risk of dying in any one year was 50 per cent lower among men who had sex twice or more a week than among men who had sex less than once a month. Engaging in sex once or twice a week produces 30 percent higher levels of immunoglobulin A, which boosts your body's immune system. Having an active sex life may even lower your risk of developing cancer, heart disease and stroke. On top of all that, it's a remedy for colds and flu.

Researchers at the Monash University in Australia found that women who were sexually dissatisfied had lower well-being and vitality; and these women were not always those having less sex.

A good sex life is a key to youthful looks. It helps in reducing stress, greater contentment and better sleep, all of which are also associated with sexual activity.

Like any exercise, sexual intercourse burns fat and calories-about 96 calories in 20 minutes for a 150-lb person. Vaginal stimulation results in increased pain tolerance and pleasurable self-stimulation of the clitoris also has an analgesic effect. This type of stimulation can ease the pain of menstrual cramps, arthritis, migraine and other conditions.

What is Premature Ejaculation, its causes and control methods

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Premature ejaculation (PE) is a condition in which a man ejaculates earlier than he or his partner would like him to. Premature ejaculation is also known as rapid ejaculation, rapid climax, premature climax, or early ejaculation. Masters and Johnson defines PE as the condition in which a man ejaculates before his sex partner achieves orgasm, in more than fifty percent of their sexual encounters. Other sex researchers have defined premature ejaculation as occurring if the man ejaculates within two minutes of penetration; however, a survey by Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s demonstrated that three quarters of men ejaculate within two minutes of penetration in over half of their sexual encounters. Self reported surveys report up to 75% of men ejaculate within 10 minutes of penetration. Today, most sex therapists understand premature ejaculation as occurring when a lack of ejaculatory control interferes with sexual or emotional well-being in one or both partners.

Some causes for premature ejaculation (or you can't get it up) are:


  • Diabetes
  • Medications for heart disease
  • Medications for depression
  • Some medications in general
  • Stress
  • Being over-tired
In all of the above mentioned causes, the best thing would be to see a doctor if you are not too shy to discuss about your problem.

Most men experience premature ejaculation at least once in their lives. PE affects 25%-40% of men in the United States. Because there is great variability in both how long it takes men to ejaculate and how long both partners want sex to last, researchers have begun to form a quantitative definition of premature ejaculation. Every man is born with premature ejaculation, so having it is perfectly normal to start with. Controlling ejaculation is something you have to learn just as you had to learn to control your bladder as a child. We get taught to control our bladders but no one teaches us how to control ejaculation.

Ejaculation Control Video by Jaiya


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Monday, May 2, 2011

Summer Weight Loss Tips for Looking Fabulous

Summer Weight Loss Tips for Looking Fabulous
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There are three or four months of the year when having the best body imaginable is most important – the summer months. Summer weight loss is important to both men and women, but how they approach that weight loss may be completely different. Men tend to have more muscle mass and a quicker metabolism, so losing weight seems simple. Women, however, have fewer pounds of muscle and a slower metabolism thanks to mother nature.



Summer is a good time to eat right and get lots of exercise. With the availability of fresh produce and the ease of getting outside, there is no excuse for those extra pounds. Eating light, healthy meals in moderation and sweating outside are the keys to summer weight-loss success.
10 Ways To Lose Weight in This Summer

1. Drink at Least 8-10 Glasses of Water a Day

Water plays very important part in our bodily functions. Body fat and bones account for about 20% of water each, lean muscle tissues are 75% water and over 80% of our blood is water. Water helps kidneys to remove toxins, that way allowing liver to metabolize more fat. Water actually works as a natural appetite suppressant!

2. Drink Less Alcohol or Remove it Completely

If you are serious about losing weight, then put alcohol on your highly restricted list. Alcohol just helps your body to store fat by slowing down your metabolism.

3. Avoid Desserts, ice-Crams And Such

These are a big no-no if you want to lose weight. These things are full of saturated fats and sugar, and they are all main culprits that cause excess weight.

Include low fat milk products like yogurt, skimmed milk, cottage cheese in your diet – These all contain “good proteins” that will help you suppress cravings for foods. They are essential in building your muscles.

4. Include Vegetables, Beans, Whole Grains and Fruits in Your Diet

They contain “good carbohydrates” which are moderate on calories and fats. They are digested slowly by the body; therefore they will help you suppress your hunger and feel full for longer.

5. Include Omega 3 Fatty Acids in Your Diet

These kinds of acids increase metabolism and energy levels of your body. You should eat fish such as Mackerel, Salmon, Sardines and Herrings. They are all rich in Omega 3 fatty acids, and those acids are proven to prevent blood clothing, regulate blood pressure and lower risks of heart failure. Therefore they are very helpful in weight loss as well.

6. Eat 4, 5 or 6 Smaller Meal Portions

Instead of having normal 3 meals a day, go for 4, 5 or even 6 smaller meals a day. Smaller meals at shorter intervals will help your metabolism and burn more fat. It’s also good for weight loss.

7. Eat High-fiber Food

Fiber food is more filling and it will suppress your hunger. High fiber food takes more time to be digested and when it passes through your body it will attach to some fats and proteins in your food, therefore it will keep them from being digested. Some examples of high fiber foods are: whole grains, brown rice, figs, apples, broccoli, peas, lentils, beans, fresh vegetables and fruits, nuts etc.

8. Use Proper Spices in Your Diet

Spices like ginger, mustard, pepper, cinnamon, bay leaf etc all decrease sugar cravings and are helpful in losing weight.

9. Avoid Late Night Meals

You shouldn’t eat anything 2 to 3 hours before going to bed. Allow some time for food to be digested before you go to bed.

10. Use a Dietary Supplement

If necessary, you should use some effective weight loss supplement. It should be all-natural and without any side effects. Using a weight loss supplement can drastically speed up your weight loss process, and you want to be fit for the summer, right? So if everything else fails, don’t be afraid to use a diet pill.

Sunday, March 20, 2011

How can i get my guy to last longer in bed?

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Studies have shown that frequent masturbators actually last longer in bed due to over-stimuation of the penis. So I doubt your masturbation is causing premature ejaculation.
The best way to train yourself is to practice stopping just before orgasm when you are masturbating. That way you can learn to recognise exactly when you are about to orgasm and slow down until you relax a bit.
Aim to masturbate for 20 minutes without orgasming and see if you can do it.

Okay, what i have done is to change the environment such as a resort holiday. We actually plan for a naughty trip and we brought along some sex games and costumes etc. Personally, I think to resolve the barrier between both of you is to communicate and understanding each other needs.

when he jerks it once he is done have him keep going for 2 or more minutes it desensitizes the penis and will make him last longer

Buy a tube of teething gel for babies. Rub a little bit on your pecker-head and put on a rubber.
It works the same way Delay Creme does, only it’s not embarassing if someone sees you buying it.

I can generally make it last as long as I want. So yea, you can practice techniques for making it last. Stopping just before and restarting is usually the best way. If he’s doing this then all you gotta do is keep up the pressure, if you know what I mean.
Also I was on lexapro for a while and that did cause some problems in ….getting there…so medication can effect it.

Maybe he is more on the shy side and just not very kinky. He probably is satisfied with conventional sex and doesn’t share your desire for all the new things. Did he got into it when you got the toys and pull out the naughty nurse costume, or he did not care for it?
I had a boyfriend like that, it was just how he was, but I wasn’t as upfront with him as you were, I just waited to see if he would ever want to do something different, and he never did and with time we got boring…and we ended up becoming more friends than anything else…we ended up broking up, probably just because we had different personalities in and out of Bed.
I ended up marrying another guy a few years later, we are married for 7 years now and sex today is just as great as when we were dating. First he is into pleasuring me, loves foreplay, loves to talk about different fantasies, buy toys ( Just got a Hot G-vibe) you should try ;) , we go on nice vacations, every now and than we go dancing, clubbing… he makes sure we don’t became just another boring couple…. But this is who he is, is his personality.
Anyways, I think you did a lot and showed him what you like and what turns you on. If he doesn;t respond after that might be that he is just more conservative in bed than you are. He may eventually come around, you never know.
A question: When you do have sex does he try to please you or he is just worried about his share? There are guys that are on the quiet side, and even know theya re not much into many things, still make sure you come before they do…If that’s your husband, than just give a little more time… If he just cares about him, is time to have a talk…
I’ve been married a few years, and contrary to what everybody says, sex does matter on a relationship.

Stop after one and one half minutes and take a short rest.Resume and take a small break everytime you feel your getting close. Trust me this works. You should last longer each time.Good Luck
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