Friday, July 1, 2011
If you're not sure you're ready, and you're not going to him to talk about it, you definitely aren't ready. Until you can talk openly with him about your fears or worries, don't even think about it. What do you consider to be a long time together? You say there's no pressure on you but the mere fact that you know very well that he's ready and he's not a virgin, suggests that there is some pressure – even if it's subtle. Make him wait a little longer, until you're really ready and if he's not patient enough, you'll know you made the right choice. It really depends on whether you're after something that will cement your relationship or you're interested in a bit of fun and just curious about what sex is like? Remember it'll be different with every partner though, so if it doesn't turn out well, don't be put off!