Clitoris vs G-Spot

Clitoris vs G-Spot

A lot of my blog readers asked me to differentiate G-spot orgasm from clitoral orgasm. The only function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure. There are around 6000-8000 nerve endings, twice the amount found in the entire penis. That’s why the feeling is more intense for women during masturbation or sex. Unlike the G-spot, the clitoris is located outside the vagina. It is a button-like portion at the top of the vaginal slit, where the inner lips (labia minora) meet. It is the female equivalent of the head of the penis. It’s extremely sensitive to touch, too sensitive for direct stimulation. Just like the G-spot, you need to turn-on a woman first before you stimulate her clitoris. When a woman is aroused, her clitoris swells and becomes erect making it easier for you to locate. Do not touch her clitoris until it’s properly lubricated. Wait for her to get wet or you can use water-based EZ warming jelly. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable. Apply a few drops of jelly on your fingers. Slightly touch the area around the clitoris – below or just above it. Rub her clit with light, small circular movements. Then you can rub it up and down with very light pressure. Start slow and increase speed but decrease the pressure to tease. As she starts to enjoy it, do it faster and harder. You can also take her hand and let her guide your own fingers the way she masturbates.

So what’s the difference between Clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm? Clitoral orgasm is the most common way a woman orgasms. A woman can tell when she’s about to climax/orgasm. She experiences waves of pleasure, increased breathing, heart rate, rhythmic contraction of the lower pubic muscles and the vagina. Everything takes about 10 seconds. The clitoris becomes extremely sensitive after climax. Orgasm from G-spot stimulation is bigger. It’s a whole-body kind of experience. It’s hard to identify the beginning and end of a G-spot orgasm because it is a long, slow orgasm. The sensation fills her up until she can’t believe she could possibly feel more, then she does, and it fills up her entire body again. That’s why when you stimulate a woman’s G-spot, you will leave her wanting for more.

Check out this video for some actual demonstration:

How can i get my guy to last longer in bed?

Studies have shown that frequent masturbators actually last longer in bed due to over-stimuation of the penis. So I doubt your masturbation is causing premature ejaculation.

The best way to train yourself is to practice stopping just before orgasm when you are masturbating. That way you can learn to recognise exactly when you are about to orgasm and slow down until you relax a bit.

Aim to masturbate for 20 minutes without orgasming and see if you can do it.

Okay, what i have done is to change the environment such as a resort holiday. We actually plan for a naughty trip and we brought along some sex games and costumes etc. Personally, I think to resolve the barrier between both of you is to communicate and understanding each other needs.

when he jerks it once he is done have him keep going for 2 or more minutes it desensitizes the penis and will make him last longer

Buy a tube of teething gel for babies. Rub a little bit on your pecker-head and put on a rubber.
It works the same way Delay Creme does, only it’s not embarassing if someone sees you buying it.

I can generally make it last as long as I want. So yea, you can practice techniques for making it last. Stopping just before and restarting is usually the best way. If he’s doing this then all you gotta do is keep up the pressure, if you know what I mean.

Also I was on lexapro for a while and that did cause some problems in ….getting there…so medication can effect it.

Maybe he is more on the shy side and just not very kinky. He probably is satisfied with conventional sex and doesn’t share your desire for all the new things. Did he got into it when you got the toys and pull out the naughty nurse costume, or he did not care for it?

I had a boyfriend like that, it was just how he was, but I wasn’t as upfront with him as you were, I just waited to see if he would ever want to do something different, and he never did and with time we got boring…and we ended up becoming more friends than anything else…we ended up broking up, probably just because we had different personalities in and out of Bed.

I ended up marrying another guy a few years later, we are married for 7 years now and sex today is just as great as when we were dating. First he is into pleasuring me, loves foreplay, loves to talk about different fantasies, buy toys ( Just got a Hot G-vibe) you should try , we go on nice vacations, every now and than we go dancing, clubbing… he makes sure we don’t became just another boring couple…. But this is who he is, is his personality.

Anyways, I think you did a lot and showed him what you like and what turns you on. If he doesn;t respond after that might be that he is just more conservative in bed than you are. He may eventually come around, you never know.

A question: When you do have sex does he try to please you or he is just worried about his share? There are guys that are on the quiet side, and even know theya re not much into many things, still make sure you come before they do…If that’s your husband, than just give a little more time… If he just cares about him, is time to have a talk…

I’ve been married a few years, and contrary to what everybody says, sex does matter on a relationship.

Stop after one and one half minutes and take a short rest.Resume and take a small break everytime you feel your getting close. Trust me this works. You should last longer each time.Good Luck

Women Ejaculation - How it work

Women Ejaculation - How it work

Most of the women ejaculate when they experience an orgasm usually with G-spot stimulation, though some ejaculate with clitoral stimulation alone. It happens because the Skene’s glands are "milked" when you stimulate the G-spot (evidence to support the theory that, at least for some women, the glands are the reason for the G spot. Another explanation for the small number of women who ejaculate is that women are sexually aroused in so many different ways that only a small portion of them stimulate the glandular area that induces it.

There is a lot of talk about this subject usually described as "squirting" in forums. Women and men share a variety of views: loving it, trying to do it, and even wanting nothing to do with it. Most suggest experimenting by yourself first when your inhibitions are likely to be lower, thus avoiding potential embarrassment, and to answer any concern about it being urine. If you aren’t sure, use a white towel or tissue to catch the fluid so you can examine it. Sometimes it shoots out; sometimes it trickles or runs out of the vagina. It can be just a few drips or up to a of cup of liquid.

The fluid is released from the glands surrounding urethra opening. The actual composition seems to be a small amount of a chemically altered form of urine mixed with the glandular fluid, which is very similar to the liquid released when a man’s prostate is stimulated during sex. It doesn’t smell like urine, nor does it stain like urine.

It is possible, although very unlikely, for women to urinate during intercourse especially if the muscles have been weakened following childbirth weakening the pelvic floor muscles, Kegal exercise can help restore this muscle strength..

Women are lucky they poccess the ability to orgasm from many different arousal techniques and its only natural that they would enjoy some methods more than others. Work with your own individual sexual identity.

If you don't ejaculate do not strive for it to the exclusion of other sexual pleasure after all if you only ejaculate a small amount it may be unnoticeable amongst your normal lubrication.

Hot and Deep Kissing Scene - Lesbian

Hot and Deep Kissing Scene - Lesbian