Showing posts with label orgasm. Show all posts
Showing posts with label orgasm. Show all posts

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

Sex positions for G spot orgasm - how to find and stimulate female G spot



This ideo shows you how you can stimulate the G spot and have G spot orgasms during intercourse.

Most people think of the G spot, that extra sensitive area inside of the vagina that is the source of female ejaculation as a place you can only stimulate with fingers or "specially shaped toys." Tantra.com website
In this you can see how you and your partner can move together to get the G spot in on your action. Two specific positions you can try TONIGHT, but more importantly, you'll understand why and how they work... so you don't just have to copy, you can improvise and compose your own sexual symphonies. Enjoy the video, and have a great day!

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Tuesday, May 7, 2013

Best Sex Positions To Make Her Orgasm Fast

Have you ever wondered why most women never orgasm from penetration?

Well in this video you're going to learn what most guys do that prevents their girl from having these orgasms... And I'll show you 3 of the best positions that make women orgasm fast.

Have you ever noticed that when a woman gets on top to ride you, she rarely (if ever) goes straight up and down...


What do women do when they get on top?

They grind you! Why? Because they're making your "member" rub against her clitoris and g-spot...
But what do most guys do when their girl gets on top?

They try to thrust straight in and out from underneath thinking that if they can just go fast and long enough, she'll eventually get there.

But if you're just going straight in and out... Sure it'll still feel good to have you inside of her, but you'll never stimulate her orgasm areas and she won't be able to climax.

What you're about to learn is going to give you the ability to give any woman multiple penetration orgasms fast, regardless of your size or stamina.
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So here are 3 of the best positions that will angle you in the right way to stimulate these orgasm inducing areas so you can give her extremely powerful penetration orgasms fast!

Positions # 1 The g-drive

In this position, have your girl lay on her back with her knees bent and feet up on your chest while you kneel in front of her.

The magic, comes when you place a pillow under the lower part of her back.

This will raise her pelvic area up in the air and because of the angle it makes, you'll be rubbing along the entire length of her g-spot with every single thrust!

Now it'll take much less penetration to make her orgasm and if you've given her the right kind of foreplay, she will climax very fast!

Position # 2 Body Surfing

Instead of using doggy style in the traditional way, try this much more stimulating variation.
Have her lay flat on her stomach (again with a pillow, this time under her lower abs). Lay flat on top of her and thrust from behind in an up and down motion.

Again, because of the positioning caused by the pillow, you'll be stimulating her g-spot like crazy and it won't take long at all before she's cums all over you.

Now since your head is right above hers, you're also in the perfect position for some dirty talk... so do it!

Tell her how amazing she feels and how sexy she looks with her back arched like that.
And if you really want to show some male sexual authority, lightly hold her arms down with your hands.

Don't be surprised if she cums really quickly and develops and new deeper fondness of your pillows.

Position # 3 The Rocking Release.

Next time your girl gets on top, tell her how sexy it would look if she leaned back.

Then use some pillows, the headboard of the bed or whatever you need to prop your upper body up at an angle as well.

When she gets on top, she wants to do the thrusting because she's going to do it in exactly the right way to make herself reach orgasm.

So do not thrust back, otherwise you'll mess up her chances of reaching climax... and you'll do nothing more than frustrate her. Instead, play with her boobs and clit.

Now, she'll be getting the best possible internal stimulation because she's thrusting in the most pleasurable way possible, and you'll be giving her some incredible external sensations.

Now the tips in this video are barley scratching the surface when it comes to what most guys do wrong in bed... And what it really takes to give women the loudest and most powerful orgasms of their lives...


Best Sex Positions to get squirting orgasm

Saturday, December 10, 2011

How to give a hand job to your partner


Women are not always in the mood to have a intercourse with her partner. It’s a “girl thing”. It maybe hormonal or stress related. What to do when your hubby is in the mood and you’re not? Well, at LEAST give hime a hand job and a good one. Hand jobs are great! It’s also the best way to stop or start if you’re giving Blow Job. Because your hands don’t tire out as quickly as your mouth does. Also it is easier to apply pleasure with your hand than your mouth.


Here are some of my tips to make him orgasm fast through hand job:


1. Use plenty of water-based lube. Wet hand job is way better than a dry hand job. You can also use your saliva.

2. Wrap your hand gently but firmly around his penis. Slowly move it up and down. Keep a steady rhythm.

3. Hold his penis like you’re trying to open a door knob. Then try turning it the other way. Repeat. This way the palm of your hand stimulates the underside of the penis which is highly erogenous and pleasurable.

4. Look him in the eye. Give him a sexy look while you’re giving him a hand job. Let him know that you’re focused on him.

5. Talk dirty to him. Whisper in his ear while you’re stroking him. Ask him if he wants it harder or faster.

6. If you’re not making eye-contact, you can kiss him while stroking him. Kiss, lick and suck his nipples.

7. You can also use the other hand to gently cup his balls while stroking him up and down.

8. As he nears climax, continue stroking his shaft with one hand while the other massages his perineum (stretch of skin between his anus and testitcles)


It’s a good idea to experiment and try different moves. Practice makes perfect. You can also ask him to show you how he likes to be pleasured. Put your hand over his and let him guide you.

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Monday, October 3, 2011

Women can masturbate with almost everything - Funway for Sexual Pleasure

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Did you know? Women can masturbate with almost everything! Do you know there are differnt ways to enjoying sexual pleasure for women. Women have many more options when it comes to masturbating than men. That is why we have decided to tell you some of the most fun ways that girls can use to have some hot solo pleasure.



In bed with a teddy bear


Stuffed animals are extremely appropriate for female masturbation, especially if they are a bit bigger and if their body parts are a bit harder. This works best with teddy bears, where the arms and legs are very appropriate for some naughty rubbing against the vagina. We are sure many teenage girls play with their teddy bears in this way, also because of the snout with its kinky shape, ideal for stimulating the clitoris. One of our regular readers shared this with us: “When I was a young girl, I had a teddy bear who had a button instead of a snout. During masturbation, I put it on my clitoris and moved it very slowly until I reached a powerful orgasm. I still have the teddy bear and I always have some very naughty memories of him.”

Rubbing against a blanket and a pillow


A blanket is also very handy. The girl can roll it into a ball and put it between her legs. She has to be kneeling on all fours and moving up and down. She should rub against a naked crotch and can add a pillow to the action as well. The pillow is harder and perhaps even more suitable for direct contact with the vagina. The girl can use any combination she wants and can move as she finds most appropriate. The same applies to the positions, which can also be changed.

The edge of the couch


This is very similar to the blanket and pillow, except that the execution is a bit naughtier because the action may take place in the living room, where it is more likely for you to get caught. Every couch has a wide enough edge, so that you can hump it and rub up against it as feels best to you. You can do it over your panties, or against a naked crotch. You can do it slowly, wildly, without reservations. Do it in the way that feels best to you and turns you on the most.

The flow of water


Many girls prefer masturbating in the bathroom, sometimes when showering, when they aim the flow of water into their vagina, or above a bidet, which is perfect for this kind of thing. if you have a showerhead with multiple settings, meaning that you can regulate the power of the flow, your pleasure will be greater and you will be able to control it more. If you have a bidet, you are in paradise because you only need to squat and aim the water straight at your crotch.

Bananas, Cumcumber, Summer squash, Carrots and other substitutes


If you do not have a vibrator nearby and if fingers start to feel boring, then a banana or carrot can also be handy. They look fairly similar to a real penis. With a banana, it is a good idea to peel it, while the carrot needs to be thoroughly washed. What is done with these objects is of course obvious, so we will not discuss this at this moment. More daring and naughty girls can also use hairbrushes, fountain pens and a toothbrush besides bananas and carrots. Perhaps even a bottle or a ladle. So, women can use anything that even remotely resembles a penis and might provide some pleasurable moments. Men usually have just their hands, but the choice is much greater for women. That is why we advise they not hold back and have as many naughty pleasures as they can without any reservations and feelings of shame.

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

Clitoris vs G-Spot

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Clitoris vs G-Spot

A lot of my blog readers asked me to differentiate G-spot orgasm from clitoral orgasm. The only function of the clitoris is for sexual pleasure. There are around 6000-8000 nerve endings, twice the amount found in the entire penis. That’s why the feeling is more intense for women during masturbation or sex. Unlike the G-spot, the clitoris is located outside the vagina. It is a button-like portion at the top of the vaginal slit, where the inner lips (labia minora) meet. It is the female equivalent of the head of the penis. It’s extremely sensitive to touch, too sensitive for direct stimulation. Just like the G-spot, you need to turn-on a woman first before you stimulate her clitoris. When a woman is aroused, her clitoris swells and becomes erect making it easier for you to locate. Do not touch her clitoris until it’s properly lubricated. Wait for her to get wet or you can use water-based EZ warming jelly. A lot of women may find direct pressure uncomfortable. Apply a few drops of jelly on your fingers. Slightly touch the area around the clitoris – below or just above it. Rub her clit with light, small circular movements. Then you can rub it up and down with very light pressure. Start slow and increase speed but decrease the pressure to tease. As she starts to enjoy it, do it faster and harder. You can also take her hand and let her guide your own fingers the way she masturbates.

So what’s the difference between Clitoral orgasm and G-spot orgasm? Clitoral orgasm is the most common way a woman orgasms. A woman can tell when she’s about to climax/orgasm. She experiences waves of pleasure, increased breathing, heart rate, rhythmic contraction of the lower pubic muscles and the vagina. Everything takes about 10 seconds. The clitoris becomes extremely sensitive after climax. Orgasm from G-spot stimulation is bigger. It’s a whole-body kind of experience. It’s hard to identify the beginning and end of a G-spot orgasm because it is a long, slow orgasm. The sensation fills her up until she can’t believe she could possibly feel more, then she does, and it fills up her entire body again. That’s why when you stimulate a woman’s G-spot, you will leave her wanting for more.
Check out this video for some actual demonstration:

Sunday, March 20, 2011

How can i get my guy to last longer in bed?

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Studies have shown that frequent masturbators actually last longer in bed due to over-stimuation of the penis. So I doubt your masturbation is causing premature ejaculation.
The best way to train yourself is to practice stopping just before orgasm when you are masturbating. That way you can learn to recognise exactly when you are about to orgasm and slow down until you relax a bit.
Aim to masturbate for 20 minutes without orgasming and see if you can do it.

Okay, what i have done is to change the environment such as a resort holiday. We actually plan for a naughty trip and we brought along some sex games and costumes etc. Personally, I think to resolve the barrier between both of you is to communicate and understanding each other needs.

when he jerks it once he is done have him keep going for 2 or more minutes it desensitizes the penis and will make him last longer

Buy a tube of teething gel for babies. Rub a little bit on your pecker-head and put on a rubber.
It works the same way Delay Creme does, only it’s not embarassing if someone sees you buying it.

I can generally make it last as long as I want. So yea, you can practice techniques for making it last. Stopping just before and restarting is usually the best way. If he’s doing this then all you gotta do is keep up the pressure, if you know what I mean.
Also I was on lexapro for a while and that did cause some problems in ….getting there…so medication can effect it.

Maybe he is more on the shy side and just not very kinky. He probably is satisfied with conventional sex and doesn’t share your desire for all the new things. Did he got into it when you got the toys and pull out the naughty nurse costume, or he did not care for it?
I had a boyfriend like that, it was just how he was, but I wasn’t as upfront with him as you were, I just waited to see if he would ever want to do something different, and he never did and with time we got boring…and we ended up becoming more friends than anything else…we ended up broking up, probably just because we had different personalities in and out of Bed.
I ended up marrying another guy a few years later, we are married for 7 years now and sex today is just as great as when we were dating. First he is into pleasuring me, loves foreplay, loves to talk about different fantasies, buy toys ( Just got a Hot G-vibe) you should try ;) , we go on nice vacations, every now and than we go dancing, clubbing… he makes sure we don’t became just another boring couple…. But this is who he is, is his personality.
Anyways, I think you did a lot and showed him what you like and what turns you on. If he doesn;t respond after that might be that he is just more conservative in bed than you are. He may eventually come around, you never know.
A question: When you do have sex does he try to please you or he is just worried about his share? There are guys that are on the quiet side, and even know theya re not much into many things, still make sure you come before they do…If that’s your husband, than just give a little more time… If he just cares about him, is time to have a talk…
I’ve been married a few years, and contrary to what everybody says, sex does matter on a relationship.

Stop after one and one half minutes and take a short rest.Resume and take a small break everytime you feel your getting close. Trust me this works. You should last longer each time.Good Luck

Sunday, January 31, 2010

What is Female Ejaculation

What is Female Ejaculation
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Female ejaculation is a release of fluid from the external genitalia associated with sexual activity. Some say this fluid must be released under pressure, while others say it must be associated with the woman's orgasm. Whatever the definition used, female ejaculations are hard to find.


What Women Experience

There is very little research on this phenomenon. Not surprisingly, the more stringent the definition, the fewer the number of women who can be found to have experienced it. In one study, women were stimulated where the supposed G-spot is (on the vaginal wall closest to the stomach) and asked, immediately afterwards, if they experienced a spurt of fluid at orgasm. Only 6% said they did at the time. A total of 13% said they ever had. However, the existence of the G-spot itself is controversial, which consequently makes this view questionable, too.

If one loosens the definition to be a spurt of fluid at orgasm, without specifying stimulation of the alleged G-spot be involved, more women say "yes." However, these numbers may be inflated as these studies also differed by surveying women, instead of testing them directly. In other words, the researchers asked the women to remember their experiences throughout life, rather than having them have sex and report back to the researchers right away. The results of the two studies known varied greatly. One study reported only "a handful" of women experienced ejaculations, while another study showed 39.5% experienced the same. The exact words used in questioning the women may account for the differences. Yet another survey found about 40% of women said 'yes' when a release (as opposed to a spurt) of fluid at orgasm was the criteria.


What is it and where does it come from?

There is also controversy regarding the anatomical structures and the type of fluid that is expelled. Some investigators believe that the fluid originates from structures called the Skene's glands, which exits through the urethra (where urine comes out). Still others believe that the fluid comes from the bladder, and is, in fact urine. An alternate term is orgastic urination. Essentially, this is stress urinary incontinence due to orgasm.

On the other hand, some believe that the fluid is vaginal in origin. It is theorized when the vagina becomes narrowed from engorgement with blood during sexual excitement and then spasms due to orgasm, that this creates enough pressure to eject vaginal fluid.

What does it all mean?

Few women experience a phenomenon that closely resembles male ejaculation, although many report some kind of fluid release. What it is and where it comes from and why (or even if) women do it is still uncertain. If you think you experience it, you are not abnormal. And if you don't, you are not abnormal, either!

Sunday, February 8, 2009

Clitoris - an avenue for sexual pleasure and orgasm.


The clitoris is part of the female sexual anatomy in mammals. It serves no other known purpose than to provide an avenue for sexual pleasure and orgasm. The clitoris is located in the folds of the labia majora (outer vaginal lips), under the clitoral hood at the top of the vagina. It is about the size of a pea, but differs in size and shape between women. There is also an inner portion, which has been suggested is the other side of the G-spot. When aroused, the clitoris swells with blood, similar to the male erection. It may protrude slightly, and the hood may slide back. It can usually be felt.

The clitoris has as many nerve endings in it as does the glans of the male penis, making it a very suitable sexual apparatus. Every clitoris is different in shape, size and method of stimulation that feels the best. A clitoris shouldn't be touched with anything dry, as this can irritate. Fingers, penises or other objects should be moistened and slightly wet for best results.

To the untrained eye or touch, the clitoris may be difficult to find among the many folds and crevices of the vagina. It can be found by gently exploring with a moist finger or tongue the top of the vaginal lips just before the pubic bone and hair begins. There is no hair on the clitoris; it is smooth. It is easier to find on an aroused woman, because it swells and, when you get it right, she will no doubt let you know in no uncertain terms. If you are having trouble finding it or touching it right, ask the owner for some instructions. The clitoris is arguably the most important area of the genitals to be stimulated on a woman during sex play.
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