How can i get my guy to last longer in bed?

Studies have shown that frequent masturbators actually last longer in bed due to over-stimuation of the penis. So I doubt your masturbation is causing premature ejaculation.

The best way to train yourself is to practice stopping just before orgasm when you are masturbating. That way you can learn to recognise exactly when you are about to orgasm and slow down until you relax a bit.

Aim to masturbate for 20 minutes without orgasming and see if you can do it.

Okay, what i have done is to change the environment such as a resort holiday. We actually plan for a naughty trip and we brought along some sex games and costumes etc. Personally, I think to resolve the barrier between both of you is to communicate and understanding each other needs.

when he jerks it once he is done have him keep going for 2 or more minutes it desensitizes the penis and will make him last longer

Buy a tube of teething gel for babies. Rub a little bit on your pecker-head and put on a rubber.
It works the same way Delay Creme does, only it’s not embarassing if someone sees you buying it.

I can generally make it last as long as I want. So yea, you can practice techniques for making it last. Stopping just before and restarting is usually the best way. If he’s doing this then all you gotta do is keep up the pressure, if you know what I mean.

Also I was on lexapro for a while and that did cause some problems in ….getting there…so medication can effect it.

Maybe he is more on the shy side and just not very kinky. He probably is satisfied with conventional sex and doesn’t share your desire for all the new things. Did he got into it when you got the toys and pull out the naughty nurse costume, or he did not care for it?

I had a boyfriend like that, it was just how he was, but I wasn’t as upfront with him as you were, I just waited to see if he would ever want to do something different, and he never did and with time we got boring…and we ended up becoming more friends than anything else…we ended up broking up, probably just because we had different personalities in and out of Bed.

I ended up marrying another guy a few years later, we are married for 7 years now and sex today is just as great as when we were dating. First he is into pleasuring me, loves foreplay, loves to talk about different fantasies, buy toys ( Just got a Hot G-vibe) you should try , we go on nice vacations, every now and than we go dancing, clubbing… he makes sure we don’t became just another boring couple…. But this is who he is, is his personality.

Anyways, I think you did a lot and showed him what you like and what turns you on. If he doesn;t respond after that might be that he is just more conservative in bed than you are. He may eventually come around, you never know.

A question: When you do have sex does he try to please you or he is just worried about his share? There are guys that are on the quiet side, and even know theya re not much into many things, still make sure you come before they do…If that’s your husband, than just give a little more time… If he just cares about him, is time to have a talk…

I’ve been married a few years, and contrary to what everybody says, sex does matter on a relationship.

Stop after one and one half minutes and take a short rest.Resume and take a small break everytime you feel your getting close. Trust me this works. You should last longer each time.Good Luck

Female Masturbation Techniques

Female Masturbation Technique. ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·¢ 溇áKÄí Ø¢çÍÞ·Jßæa ¥çÄ ¥ÈáÍÕÎÞçÃÞ ÈWµáKÄí ? ØídÄàµ{ßæÜ ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·æJAáùß‚í ¥ùßEÞWæAÞUÞ¢. ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·¢ æºÏí ÄÞW ®æa µÈcÞºVN¢ æÉÞGßçMÞµáçÎÞ ?

èµÕßøÜáµZ ©ÉçÏÞ·ß‚í Í·ÖßÖíÈßµ ©çJ¼ßM߂ᢠçÏÞÈßÏß æÜ ºáIáµZ çÉÞÜáU ÍÞ·Jí ÎãÆáÕÞÏß ¥ÎVJßÏᢠÄÝáµßÏá ÎÞÃí ØídÄàµ{ßW ÍâøßÉfÕᢠØbÏ¢çÍÞ·¢ 溇áKÄí. Í·ÖßÖí ÈßµÏáæ¿ ¥d·ÍÞ·çÎÞ ²øá dÉçÄcµ çµdwçÎÞ ÎÞdÄ¢ ©çJ¼ßMß‚á æµÞIßøáKÞW ¥Õß¿¢ ÎøÕß‚í ØíÉVÖ¢ ¥ùßÏÞæÄ çÉÞµá¢. çÏÞÈàØ¢ÌtÎÞÏ øÄßÎâVºí»ÏᢠͷÖßÖíÈßµ Ø¢ÌtÎÞÏ øÄßÎâVºí»ÏᢠÄNßW ÕcÄcÞØÎáIí. øÄßÎâVºí» çÏÞÈàæÏ çµdwàµøß‚í ÄæKÏÞÃí Ø¢ÍÕßAáKÄí. Í·ÖßÖíÈßµ øÄßÎâVºí »ÏßæÜJÞX ØÙÞÏßAáK dÉÇÞÈæMG çµdwÎÞÃí ®çKÏá Uâ. 

ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·¢ 溇áK  §øáÉÄáÖÄÎÞÈ¢ ØídÄàµ{ᢠèµÕßøçÜÞ ÆmáçÉÞÜáU ÎæxæLCßÜᢠÕØíÄáAç{Þ çÏÞÈßÏßçÜAá µ¿Jß ØbÏ¢ çÍÞ·¢ 溇áKÕøÞÃí. §ÄßW µÈcÞºVN¢ æÉÞGß çÉÞµÞX ØÞÇcÄÏáIí. ²øá ÖÄÎÞÈ¢ çÉV ÎÞdÄçÎ ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·çÕ{ÏßW ØíÄÈBZ ©çJ¼ßMßAÞùáUâ. ØbÏ¢ çÍÞ·JßæÜ øÄßÎâ Vºí» Ø¢çÍÞ·JßçÜÄßÈá ØÎÞÈÎÞæÃCßÜᢠøÄß¼Èc øÄÎâVºí »ÄæKÏÞÃí ¦ØbÞÆcµøÎÞÏß µÃAÞAæM¿áKÄí.

The act of self stimulation is perfectally normal. Auto-erotic acts have been used by both Men and Women for centuries.

Does masterbation has any ill effects on our health.?

ØbÏ¢çÍÞ·¢ 溇áçOÞZ ÖáТ ÉáùJáÕß¿ÞæÄ Éß¿ß‚á æÕÏíAá KÄí æµÞIí ¦çøÞ·cdÉÖíÈB{áIÞµáçÎÞ ?

ØbÏ¢ çÍÞ·¢ æºÏíÄáµÝßEí ÖáТ ÉáùJáÕß¿ÞæÄ Éß¿ß‚á æÕÏí AáKÄá æµÞIí ·áÃÎ߈ ¥ÄáçÉÞæÜ çÆÞ×Î߈. ÖáТ È×í¿æM ¿ÞÄßøßAÞÈÞÃí §BæÈ æº‡áæKCßW ¥ÄáæµÞIí ¥Vj Î߈. d·sßµ{ßW ÈßKí ©ÄíÉÞÆßMßAæMG ÖáТ ÉáùçJ Aá ÄæK çÉÞµá¢.ØbÏ¢ çÍÞ·¢JßW øÄßÎâVºí»ÏíAí æÄÞGáÎáOí ÖáÐ dÉÕÞÙæJ Ä¿Eá æÕÏíAáKÄáæµÞIí µáÝMÎ߈. §Äá Üߢ·JßæÜ ¾øOáµæ{ µIà×X 溇ÞX ØÙÞÏßAá¢. dÖàd¸Øí¶ ÜÈ¢ ÎÞxßæÏ¿áAÞÈÞÏß dÉçÏÞ·JßÜáU ²øá ÕcÞÏÞ΢ µâ¿ßÏÞ Ãí §Äí.


Masturbation, like sexual intercourse itself, does not cause any decline in your erection.  However, there is a refractory period that varies by age and the person that inhibits an erection for some time (1 or more hours) after masturbation or sexual intercourse. Masturbating and coming during sex are the same thing, an ejaculation based on sexual stimulation.  After coming, there is a delay until you can come again - the refractory period.  Masturbation does not interfere with sex unless you let it, mentally.  Make sex the priority.  It is more complicated because it is interaction with another person.  Masturbation is easier for men, and I think that is why a lot of men do it more than have sex. There is no reason to stop masturbating in order to "come more" during sex.  Just time is well.
Is it okay to masturbate if you're married? "Statistics state that up to 90% of the total male population and up to 65% of the total female population masturbate from time to time,"

Oral Sex - Sex Position Video

Oral sex must be done properly to excite the female and help here reach her climax.

Masturbation - The Pros of Self-Pleasure

Masturbation is one of those activities everyone enjoys. Most of us are able to ignore the discouragement, however, and continue masturbating into adulthood. Unfortunately, some of the myths we’re taught as children are less easily ignored, and many men worry that the act must be unhealthy on some level. After all, how can something so pleasurable not be bad for you? Is masturbation unhealthy? Does it create impotence, erection problems during vaginal sex or testosterone reduction? If it is OK, what frequency is considered healthy or acceptable to one's sexual health? Once a day? Twice a day? Once a week or month?

Researched is telling there's nothing literally unhealthy about masturbation, and it has no negative impact on virility. Of course, if you masturbate and then attempt intercourse five minutes later, you're likely going to run into erection problems. And there is the psychological dimension to keep in mind -- like all good things, masturbation is best in moderation. If you find it interfering with your normal life, that's a problem. But generally speaking, there's no reason to be wary of the practice.

Ejaculation as a result of masturbation is no different than ejaculation as a result of sexual intercourse; sperm count is the same in either case. Frequent sexual encounters do not cause a decline in male fertility, ergo, nor does frequent masturbation.

Frequent masturbation is not bad for you. As long as it isn’t interfering with your work performance or taking precedence over the routine activities in your life, there’s no reason to be concerned about this. It will not decrease your sex drive, and it will not cause health problems. Enthusiastic masturbation can be tiring, though, and overly frequent activity of this nature can lead to physical exhaustion. Therefore, you may want to keep this in mind and schedule your solo sessions around your job or social obligations, lest you be fatigued throughout them.


In fact, a study published in The Journal of the American Medical Association last April suggested that masturbation can help decrease men's risk of developing prostate cancer. Data collected from 30,000 males between the ages of 46 and 81 revealed that those who ejaculated most often had a 33% lower lifetime risk of prostate cancer.